• The Challenge of Mindful Living

    As we wrap up the February Independence Challenge, I hope you’ve found it helpful to focus on doing a few things for yourself (and by yourself.) One thing I’ve really been trying to focus…

  • The Truth About Aging

    If you watch any amount of television, then you know there’s a whole category of ads aimed at women of a certain age. Those ads are far too polite to mention that age, of…

  • 10 Things To Enjoy By Yourself

    Did you take the She Dwells 28 Days of Independence challenge? (Even if you didn’t, you can start right now!) One of the most difficult parts of this challenge, for many women, is spending…

  • Work & Home

    Real Life Romance

    It’s Valentine season again. If I had a least favorite time of year, this would be it. I don’t have anything against romantic love–far from it. My marriage has been one of the happiest…

  • Feminism

    The Name Game

    When Mike and I got engaged, in 1988, it didn’t even occur to me that I’d change my name after we got married. And I mean that sincerely–I didn’t give it a thought. But…